As women, it is important that we stay in code with each other and that we work together because if we turn against each other then what would we do?
The girl code is a rule to help us to give power to other women and to honor the bonds that we make with women everywhere. This is what helps us to have the girl power that we do.
There are positivity’s of women everywhere and we need to take the power of women and follow the rules of the girl code!
What is a Girl Code?
There are some girl codes that help people to stay friends and to respect each other throughout a lifetime. This is like being a part of a sisterhood and can help to keep each other safe and protected.
The girl code are rules that are never talked about, but women know that these rules have to be followed without even talking about it.
Each woman must learn to stick to these unspoken girl code rules to keep friendships around the world alive forever and ever.
Girl Code Listings
Here are some of the unwritten girl code laws that we should be following at all times:
Her Over Him
If you are friends with someone then no guy should ever be able to get between you and your friend. The bond that you have with your friend should always be stronger than the bond that you have with someone you hook up with.
Boundaries
All relationships need to have boundaries and you need to make sure that you aren’t violating these boundaries and that you are protecting your friendship at all times.
We Are All Different
Your friends and you are not the same and that is okay. When we are different it helps us to have more fun together.
You should never be around someone just because they are like you. People that are different than you will have different qualities and instead of knocking it, learn from it.
Saying Sorry
If you want to stay friends with someone forever, then you need to learn to say sorry when you mess up. Everyone makes mistakes and you can work through them by apologizing when you are wrong.
Forgiveness
On top of being sorry when you mess up, when your girlfriend messes up, you need to forgive her as well. As best friends you should never hesitate to forgive her when she messes up.
Always Make Time
Never neglect your best friend and be there when she needs you.
No Dating Her Men
Never date your best friends crush no matter how much you think he is hot.
When Times Are Hard, Be There
Be there to take care of your best friend when she is struggling. If your best friend is going through something hard, take her ice cream or give her something to cheer her up.
Show Them Their Worth
Always show your best friend what she means to you. Let her love herself and you love her too.
Fan Base
You should be your best friends number one fan at all times and support her through everything.
Lift Her Up
Help your friend to get back on track when she is feeling bad. Find ways to lift her up and help her to be better.
Secrets
You will never tell your best friends secrets to anyone.
Hiding Emotions
Confide in your best friend when something is wrong and never hide your emotions from her. Let her help you and protect you.
Ups and Downs
No matter if times are hard between you and your best friend, you should be friends forever. Don’t walk away from the friendship if it gets hard.
Disagreeing
Even in times that you don’t agree with your best friend it doesn’t mean you can leave her. Stick by her and love her even if her choices don’t match hers.
Judging
You should never judge your best friend, it’s not your job.
Hate The Others
If your best friend loves someone you can love them but if she hates someone then you need to hate them too.
Enemies
Whoever her enemies are should be your enemies too!
Ex’s and Relatives
You should never date your best friends relatives or their ex unless they tell you to. If your best friend approves of you dating one of them, then it is okay.
Side Wing
You should be the best side wing for your bestie. Take care of her.
Checking on Her
If your best friend goes on a first date, then you should be checking in to make sure she is safe.
Come Together and Leave Together
No matter where you go together you should come and go together. Never leave each other behind.
Venting
Let your best friend vent to you and help her to feel better when she is down.
Privacy
If your best friend needs their personal space from you, give it to her. If she doesn’t want you to put her picture on social media, don’t.
Accepting
Your best friend is your best friend for a reason, accept her for who she is.
Celebrate Success
You and your best friend should celebrate each other and never be jealous of each other no matter what.
Take Her Phone
Do not let your best friend do or say something that she shouldn’t on her phone. If she goes to send a text that will come back to hurt her, take her phone.
Rescuing
You need to rescue your best friend from creepy guys or other people that don’t have her best interest in mind.
Honesty
You should always be honest with your best friend from important things all the way down to how you think about her outfit.
Abandonment
You cannot abandon your best friend when she is drinking so that she doesn’t do something that she will regret in the moment. Protect her.
Make sure that your best friend gets home safe from a party or from the bar.
Have Her Back
You are the one to protect her, never forget that.
Boyfriend Cheating?
If her boyfriend is cheating, tell her. Do not let her keep dating someone that is being unfaithful to her.
Healthy Issues
When you get upset with your friend, learn to solve the issues in a healthy way. This will make your friendship stronger.
Toilet Paper
Make sure that your best friend has toilet paper when she goes to the bathroom. If she needs toilet paper, get it for her.
Tampon
If you know that a girl needs a tampon, make sure that you give her one.
Neglecting Old Friends
You are allowed to meet other people and make new friends but never forget who your best friends are. Always remember the people that were there for you.
Real friendship should never be neglected no matter what.
Talking About Friends
You should never talk about your friends to people that aren’t part of your in group. Doing this will cause your friend to not trust you and rightfully so.
Slut Shaming
You need to make sure that you aren’t putting other girls down. Learn to build them up.
Hating Girls
Never hate a girl that you don’t know, or slut shame them. Meet her and see if you like her before you run your mouth.
Stick With What You Say
When you promise to do something for your friend, do it no matter how you feel. Your girl will trust you and should.
Can You Break Girl Code?
Is it ever okay to break a girl code? The truth is that there might be some times when breaking the girl code happens, but you should try to always stick to the rules and live by them. When breaking the rules has to happen, you need to make sure that you are considering this person your best friend or not.
Find out what that person thinks of you and see if your sisterhood is top of the priority. If it isn’t then you can move on but if it is then it should be at the top of your list to follow these rules.
Having a girl code is important because you can follow these rules to keep your friendship strong. Even though you don’t talk about the rules, they are there to keep you and your best friend best friends forever.
If you choose to break the girl code, then you are not a loyal friend and you cannot expect your friendship to last forever.
Conclusion
We live in a world where people do not take care of each other. We live where people always have to prove themselves to others and that is why the girl code is so important. When you stick together then you show the world that you can be anything that you want to be, and you can take the world by surprise.