Taking Stock of Your Relationship: Needs, Space and Choice

Taking Stock of Your Relationship: Needs, Space and Choice

If a relationship feels different, you may want to understand what has changed before deciding what to do. You do not need to prove that every feeling is a red flag or that the relationship is either perfect or hopeless. Look at specific needs, current circumstances...
Communicating with the Subconscious Self

Communicating with the Subconscious Self

There are different tools that you can use to communicate with your subconscious self. Beyond the pendulum, the tarot cards can help you to develop your spiritual man. Understanding the deck of tarot cards and the signs and symbols that they give you can help to...
Recharging Your Soul Energy

Recharging Your Soul Energy

The world is a place that is full of fear right now with the spread of the Coronavirus and the first or second or even third wave of it hitting the world. People wonder if they should go out and get vaccinated or if they shouldn’t. They wonder if they should be...
How to Make Your Relationship Stronger

How to Make Your Relationship Stronger

A stronger relationship can mean more reliable care, clearer agreements and room for both people to have needs. It does not require constant togetherness, a particular amount of sex or one person carrying all the effort. If both of you want to work on the relationship...
Girl Code and Friendship: Care, Privacy and Clear Expectations

Girl Code and Friendship: Care, Privacy and Clear Expectations

“Girl code” often means an expectation that friends will treat each other with loyalty and care. The difficulty is that an unwritten rule can mean something different to each person. Assuming everyone knows the same code can leave important needs, boundaries and...
Unrequited Love: Respecting the Answer and Caring for Yourself

Unrequited Love: Respecting the Answer and Caring for Yourself

Unrequited love means that romantic feelings are not returned in the way you want. It can involve a friend, someone you have dated or a person who does not want the same kind of relationship. The disappointment can be painful even when no relationship has begun. You...
Dating an Independent Woman: Autonomy, Care and Mutual Choice

Dating an Independent Woman: Autonomy, Care and Mutual Choice

Independence can mean having room to make choices, maintain friendships and pursue interests while sharing a life with someone. It does not have one appearance, and it is not a personality test reserved for women. If you are dating someone who values autonomy, ask...
Ways to Experience Intimacy without Sex

Ways to Experience Intimacy without Sex

Closeness can grow through conversation, shared interests, quiet company or affection that both people want. Sex does not have to be part of an activity for it to matter to your relationship. If you would like more time together, begin with an invitation rather than a...
Are You Settling in Love? Needs, Choices and Everyday Care

Are You Settling in Love? Needs, Choices and Everyday Care

Wondering whether you are settling can bring two fears together: staying in a relationship that does not meet your needs, and expecting a kind of perfection that ordinary life cannot provide. You do not have to settle that question with a score or a single...
Showing Love: Ask What Helps and Respect Limits

Showing Love: Ask What Helps and Respect Limits

Showing love starts with learning what feels welcome to the person you care about. A thoughtful gesture can mean a lot, but the same gesture will not suit everyone or every day. You do not need to guess from someone’s gender or fit either of you into a fixed...