Facing unrequited love can be heartbreaking and it can be painful. Maybe you are with someone that you have loved for some time, but they haven’t made a move to make the relationship more serious. Chances are that you want to know what they feel about you and if they love you and when you ask them, you might get an answer the hurts even more such as, “we are friends.” When that happens, you have to choose to leave or you stay and hope that things change, in the future.
Even if you love someone and you are with them, when they have unrequited love and cannot show you the same love that you have for them, you need to respect this. You cannot change them and make them love you if they don’t.
Trying to make excuses for them will cause you to have more disappointment than ever.
You have to learn to forgive yourself and stop blaming yourself for being stupid about falling for this person. You have to move forward and stop blaming yourself for love.
Stop beating yourself up because you have given your heart to someone that doesn’t love you back, that’s on them, not on you.
Unreturned Love Has Good Points
When you are with someone that doesn’t love you back, this means you weren’t able to make them love you or fall for you.
Instead of letting this get you down or causing you to give up on love, allow this to change the way you think and to become more creative in what you do in your life.
You will surprise yourself at how creative you can get in dating and other things when your love isn’t returned.
Learn to Accept It
It is hard to know when someone isn’t going to love you back and if you have strong feelings for someone, it can cause you to live in a fantasy world.
Stop trying to trick yourself into thinking he is going to love you back and if he doesn’t feel the way, take a step back and look at your relationship. This can be something hard to accept at first because your emotions are strong but once you accept it, you can move on and find someone else that does love you.
We have all learn to cope with hurt and heartache in different ways but one thing that works for all of us is that we have to heal from inside out. Our heart has to heal before other parts of our life can heal.
Wanting to be with someone that doesn’t love you back can be painful. This will open up your feelings and make you feel rejected and abandoned. The great thing is that you aren’t alone.
Learn to love yourself and learn to know that you will find the person that is right for you when the right time comes.
Being rejected is painful but you can learn a life lesson from these times. Falling in love with the wrong person will teach you how to cope and move on in life.