People often get with someone and then realize that they are with the wrong person or they might be with someone for a long time and not even be aware that they have dated the wrong person.
Someone might decide that they want to be with someone, and they will even go as far as the east is from the west so that they can be with this person that makes them whole.
A person will feel that they are whole when they are with the person that makes them feel that they have made the right choice.
Being with someone that makes you feel whole should happen and you should never rush into a relationship but allow it to be an experience for you.
A person can say that they are with someone, but they do not have the same goals, or the same values and they don’t want to be in something too serious.
This can mean that they are looking for someone, but they are just needy and need someone in their life, but they are not connected.
They develop a false sense of who they are, and they do not pay attention to what they really need, and this can leave them feeling shameful. They are people that sometimes worry that if they get into a good relationship that they will be rejected, and this makes them afraid of being vulnerable.
When they first get into the relationship, they see who they are, and they will change their behaviors so that they can match someone that they care about. They do not know if the relationship will last but how they respond to it can change the relationship wholly.
People are sometimes drawn to those that are needy because this allows them to be with someone that will not judge them and someone that will feel the same things that they feel.
One problem with that is that they do not know what to do with these feelings. Sometimes they just end up with people that have issues.
People are sometimes needing attention and they have felt rejected their whole lives. They could end up going with someone just because they give them attention that they need.
This can also be someone that could cause them to be with someone that they shouldn’t be with.
Not only could they end up with someone that they shouldn’t be with, but they could end up with someone that just leaves their life in pain and causes them to feel bad about who they are. This can be a toxic relationship.
The attention that someone needs can cause them not to think clearly and can cause them to have more needs than they imagined.
Looking at life can cause someone to feel that they are victims. This will change the way that they react to things and if you are willing to figure out why you want to have so much attention, you can find out what is going on inside of you that makes you feel empty.
Earlier in your life you may have found that you needed attention and you didn’t get that attention. This can cause problems in your adult life and cause you to feel pain. You need to acknowledge this and admit that you have a lot of pain from your past.
Once you can be aware that you have pain from your past, you can reach out to someone to help you and to show you support. You can talk to a therapist or a counselor and they can help you to heal.
Do not give up on life and do not settle for less than you deserve.