Have you ever dated someone for a while, and you wonder if you are a good match or if they would be the one for you?
Have you ever wondered if you had this amazing chemistry because you were met to be together if you could fall in love with that person that you are dating?
When you see a therapist, chances are that they will ask you to make a list, something like a shopping list but it will be a love map that will tell you what you need in love and what kind of relationship you are compatible with.
The list should be qualities that are important to you and it should be what you want to do to fulfill your relationship. Things such as hugging are important, but you need to look on over levels and figure out if you are going to have a perfect match.
Not all relationships are going to last and not all matches are going to be perfect. People will make lists and then they will hold back. Some people will put physical things on their list, and they will forget important things and so the relationship will not work out like they hope because they are looking for the wrong things.
Here are some things for your love map:
- What religion they are.
- Being fun.
- Style of Clothing
- Eating habits
- Alcoholic Use
Better Love Map
You can make a list that has many things on it. You can look to see if you can find your perfect partner and in order to do that, you need to spend time figuring out who you are.
You can be clear on what you are looking for, but you need to compromise when you want to find someone that you will be with.
Re-read the List
Once you write your list, you need to re-read it and see if there is anything that you need to add or anything that you want to take away.
Take your red pen and make sure that you circle the qualities that you value the most.
When you dream of something such as having a big yard and he wants to travel without kids, chances are that you will see that you are ending up on the wrong dating path.
When you make a love map for a partner, you will be able to recognize what you want out of someone and you will be able to see what you really want in your life.